Relationship/Marriage tips


...........By Evangelist Socrates Atieku .


Topic; Why are you in a relationship?
Every friendship should have a purpose and every relationship should have a focus. The focus of every relationship should be marriage. You have no business being in a relationship with someone if you know you are not going to marry the person. Have the right focus why you want to be in a relationship, and the focus should be because you want to marry the person.
Is so sad that a lot of people are in a relationship for the wrong reason, some are in a relationship because they are lonely and they need someone to be with, others are in a relationship for sex, some also are in a relationship for fun, many too are in a relationship because all their friends are in a relationship and they feel left out, some people too are in a relationship because someone is putting a lot of pressure on them. But all these are the wrong reason to be in a relationship.
It amazes me sometimes you see people in a relationship with people who are married, but the question is what business do you have dating somebody's husband or wife? This is not the life of a responsible, matured person. Have the right focus for being in a relationship. Don't start something with the intention of not finishing, if you know you are not going to continue and finish then don't start it at all.
Be a responsible person, may be you might be reading this article and you know you are in a wrong relationship is time to quit and come of such unhealthy relationship which is going nowhere. I mostly tell ladies that when a guy or a man come into your life there are two things you should find out from him. Whether he has a plan for your life or he want to play with your life. This man or guy who claim to be in love with you, does he want to have a future with you or the other way round.
If you are a guy who is fun of using ladies and dumping them, is time for you to stop and repent. Some guys are soo proud of how they use women and dump them, but that's a foolish thing to do, there is no sense in it at all. The bible says you will reap what you sow, so if you are reading this today is because God want you to repent. Women are not sex toy or object that must be use at will, is soo sad that when some men see women all they see is breast, buttock and sex. But women are unique beings, so see them beyond sex object.
Are you in a relationship with the right person? Is your relationship headed for marriage or you want to have fun? Are you even in the relationship with the right person? If you are in a relationship with someone is time for both of you to define that relationship. Ask yourself why are you in that relationship, is it for the right reason, if not is time to quit, if you are also in a sexical relationship is time to say no to sex and come out of such relationship and live pure and clean before God.
If you are in a relationship with someone and you know you want to get married, you have to set a boundary around that relationship and know your limit. Don't tread on dangerous grounds. As a lady the fact that he is going to marry you does not mean you should be sleeping over his place, that's a wrong thing to do. If incase you visited him and is late if he has a car let him drive you home, if he doesn't then he should pick a taxi for you to go home. Never sleep over a guy's place who is not yet married to you. Show yourself a little dignity and respect.